My Family is My Life.

Aku - Kakak - Adik - Mama - Bapak

Family is the smallest unit of the society. A good or bad person can be build up with the actions of the family. Generally the family means parents and children. In the modern world, most of the families have only three members including mother, father and son/daughter.

Foundation of a person is his or her family. It teaches us good qualities such as kindness, sharing, caring, and patience and develops our attitudes. Our parents are the first masters of our lives. So they are known as "Brahma". They teach us how to eat, how to write, how to behave and how to build up good relationships with others. Our family is the best friend of our lives. When we have won something it appreciates us, when we have failed it encourages us, when we are ill it helps us, when we have enemies it protects us. So family is like our shadow.

But unfortunately in the modern world this family has been shifted away. Now the society is running towards money. So good qualities, team spirit, family bond has marketed now. According to the industrialization each and everything has a value now. But can we assume a value for the bond between family members? Where is the family that I am searching for? What happened to it? Is it a dream or a thing in the past? No one answer these questions, because no one knows about the real value of a family and family bond.

It is possible that the whole world will be your enemy one day, but your family is with you forever.

My Family

My Family 

Have you ever been influenced by some important person that helped you be the person that you are today? I have been. The people that have had influence on me are the most important humans beings, my family. 

  I could begin the book of my life with a picture of my parents. They are important because they helped in my development. Also, they gave me the things that I needed to grow up in the moment that I needed and they still gave me everything that I needed to become somebody in the future. Among these things is the education that I have received all in my life, my basic needs like food, clothes, medicine, a place to live, and the most important thing, the love. Like for example, by being there when I needed somebody to talk to and giving me speeches when I do something wrong. Also, they care for me when I am sick and they give me the necessary things to get better. They teach me good values like how to behave, to respect other people, and to share with other people. Sometimes they push me in certain directions and have high expectations for me, but now I really appreciate everything they have taught me. I understand why they do certain things and it is because my parents want the best for me. On certain occasions I get mad, but later appreciate their words of wisdom and understand. My parents are wonderful.

  Now, about the rest of my family, my one sister and one brother, all I can say is that they are wonderful, too. With them I have learned to share, to have fun, and to understand different points of view in different situations. 

Thanks to my family today I can said all of these things to other people.